So how come most people (it seems) will readily exchange all kinds of bodily fluids in sexual activity with a member of their preferred gender which they judge at bit attractive but have just met, but the same people will freak out at the thought of using another person's toothbrush under any circumstances?
Because using another person's toothbrush is real intimacy. That other stuff you mentioned has been cheapened and thrown about casually to the point that for many it doesn't count as intimacy anymore.
ReplyDeleteThis is what prompted the invention of the disposable toothbrush.
ReplyDeleteI've often wondered the same thing. Pleasure, I think: using someone's toothbrush does not also provide intense and seemingly irresistible pleasure.
ReplyDeleteIf you step beyond the clouds of familiarity and culture - "everyone does it!" - one will see that it's just so darn unhygienic; it wouldn't be tolerated in any other area.
Our frequent poster Anonymous will most likely eat dogshit from ANYBODY'S lawn - and do it with an unwashed plastic fork.
ReplyDeleteSeems that he has already.
I'm watching and will OUT you when the time is perfect, Anonymous.
I have a similar question: why is it that guys don't mind peeing along side other guys (say in public urinals), but when it comes to taking a shit we insist on 3 walls and a door for privacy.
ReplyDeleteI think that males in the west are highly sensitives about butts, probably some homophobic thing. On the other hand they are weirdly proud of their dicks.
ReplyDeleteMichael, that's is exactly the point: people are *so* addicted to sexual pleasure that they forget all normal standards.
Oh darn ... what have I missed? What has 'Anonymous' been up to now? :-)I guess it was a post that has been deleted?
ReplyDeleteI don't think he's struck on this post, I guess Robb is just seething in general.
ReplyDeleteRobb, keep in min you're only hurting your own blood pressure and stomach acidity, not your target.
I've always assumed that Anonymous and Kabel/Robb are one and the same.
ReplyDeleteThe chemistry of love:
ReplyDeleteeither you feel comfortable being swirled by another person's molecules of her fragrance, or you don't.
If you do, you want the parts of the beloved one to be your own, thus you tend to swallow her whatever liquids, smell etc.
I've often noticed on myself that with some persons I tend to lean towards them or even want to touch them whilst with others I try to keep a distance.
Yes, the chemistry of love - I don't have any problem to share my toothbrush with my girlfriend, if needed occasionally, we even kiss ...;-)
ReplyDeleteHey man, you don't know where that toothbrush has been.
ReplyDeleteOh my God, word verification is pantsup. That's classic.
"using someone's toothbrush does not also provide intense and seemingly irresistible pleasure."
ReplyDeleteNever underestimate the creative potential of fetishists!! :-D
"it wouldn't be tolerated in any other area"
Come on, I'm sure people outside the United States ALSO have sex.
After all, they ARE breeding, aren't they? (last time I checked...)
"and do it with an unwashed plastic fork."
EYEW! GROSS!
Please, Kabel, I was just snacking here! You could at least have issued a fair warning, hombre.
(Plastic. Really...)
Hentai,
The smell, perhaps? ;-)
Or, perhaps more aptly, the embarrassing feeling of vulnerability a man gets when his pants are down in front of strangers NOT of his preferred gender.
"people are *so* addicted to sexual pleasure that they forget all normal standards."
Or maybe they're addicted to their "standards"!
After all, if toothpaste (which is rather similar to soap) is used every time, a toothbrush is WAY cleaner than a french-kiss.
Makes me wonder why people are not disgusted by the thought of "using" genitalia that has served others before them. :-P
"I've always assumed that Anonymous and Kabel/Robb are one and the same."
Robb has an alias???
Holy batarangs! What ELSE have you been keeping from me, Robb-in-the-hood?
What, you secretly a masked vigilante, too?
I KNEW IT! I *knew* that Kick-Ass feller had a familiar voice!
Uhm... unless you've been (yuck) using another person's mask? ;-)
Considering some fencing bouts I've noticed recently, if Robb and R.A.F. are the same person, he'd be an amazing masturbasochist. (One who gets a sexual high from lobbing nasty insults at himself, LOL!)
"if needed occasionally, we even kiss"
My, Neeraj, you love to live dangerously, don't you? ;-)
"'it wouldn't be tolerated in any other area
ReplyDeleteCome on, I'm sure people outside the United States ALSO have sex.
After all, they ARE breeding, aren't they? (last time I checked...)"
Pascaaaaaal! Not geographic area. :) That kind of lack of hygiene just isn't typically tolerated in any other field shall we say... except sex.
Even the idea of a French kiss strikes me as a little odd, but hey... you'll have to get back to me at some later date on this topic and see if I still feel the same. ;)